I am tired of being celibate. There is really no other way to say it. Here’s the background: I was practicing celibacy for 6 years. 6 LONG YEARS. The entire time I struggled in dating because even when you meet “Christian men” for some reason the celibacy talk never goes well. Anyway, just … Continue reading When all you want to do is say YES…
Why should giving birth or getting married be the only two check boxes on the OFFICIAL WOMANHOOD QUALIFYING SHEET? Answer me this… why Ain't I a Woman?
Sometimes it's the people closest to you that make you feel terrible about who you are. I was having a conversation with someone who has known me all my life and they revealed that they felt we had a very unhealthy relationship. While we may argue more frequently than most, I never would have imagined … Continue reading One Person’s Perspective
Lots of stuff can be PLEASUREABLE, but it doesn’t give you the POWER that most women yearn for--The power that all women need. Knowing more of Christ is the only thing that does that.
Who am I to think that I am saved enough to date an unbeliever. None of us are ever saved enough.
So, Last night I was hungry for talk-time. Having a typical “woman-like-moment” I wanted him to communicate with me. And since we both make things rather plain I told him early on: “hey, we have been passing time on the phone lately, but we definitely haven’t been talking.” He agreed. So last night, I pulled. … Continue reading Phone Chats w/an Un-Believer
I call him Gideon because like his namesake he questions more than he quests. Sometimes in dating relationships a woman wants immediate action. She doesn't want loads of questions and inferences. Keep her confident in you. She wants to know that you’ve got things covered.
As I get to know these two men, I wonder sometimes about the type of conqueror God has designed for me. Is my "HE" a good guy like Gideon--discreet, humble, hesitant? Or is he the buck wild bad boy like Joshua--No Holds barred...? or does it even matter?
You know I used to be cool. I did what I wanted to do. No excuses. No explanations . it was all a matter of personal preference. I’d just do me. But that was then. I live differently now. It wasn’t until Saturday night while hanging with my cousin that I realized how … Continue reading Coolness Deferred