I played this game with him for 2 years. We had kept it PG-13 for two years. Two years of “us” not having sex ‘on the strength of me’ as he called it. And one random date-night, when nothing we scheduled actually went as planned...
Tag: dating
How I played myself…
So lemme tell you guys how I played myself…. For months I have been “crushing” on my pastor’s son! I pay attention to what he’s wearing, where he is in the sanctuary, who he’s conversing with, etc. Seriously, straight middle school/high school shenanigans! To be perfectly transparent (which is the norm when it comes to… Continue reading How I played myself…
Distractions (part 1)
When I was 18 years old I met someone who was spiritually stronger than me. After years of dating me (and really doing everything the wrong way), he came to me one night and said that he "had never been so convicted in his life". Things changed immediately after that. Our relationship was one of those things.
When all you want to do is say YES…
I am tired of being celibate. There is really no other way to say it. Here’s the background: I was practicing celibacy for 6 years. 6 LONG YEARS. The entire time I struggled in dating because even when you meet “Christian men” for some reason the celibacy talk never goes well. Anyway, just… Continue reading When all you want to do is say YES…
Phone Chats w/an Un-Believer
So, Last night I was hungry for talk-time. Having a typical “woman-like-moment” I wanted him to communicate with me. And since we both make things rather plain I told him early on: “hey, we have been passing time on the phone lately, but we definitely haven’t been talking.” He agreed. So last night, I pulled.… Continue reading Phone Chats w/an Un-Believer
The Good Guy: “Gideon” [Part 2]
I call him Gideon because like his namesake he questions more than he quests. Sometimes in dating relationships a woman wants immediate action. She doesn't want loads of questions and inferences. Keep her confident in you. She wants to know that you’ve got things covered.
Calling my bluff…
Ruth NEVER waited. This is the only thing that plays in my head when I hear a fellow single Christian woman say she’s wating on her BOAZ.It’s the only thing I’ve been hearing in my head for the last couple days after a co-worker explained to me that all I am “is talk”. When she… Continue reading Calling my bluff…
