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Distractions (part 1)

When I was 18 years old I met someone who was spiritually stronger than me. After years of dating me (and really doing everything the wrong way), he came to me one night and said that he "had never been so convicted in his life". Things changed immediately after that. Our relationship was one of those things.

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Date Night: THE smallest GESTURE…

Oftentimes, women give men such a hard time. We set expectations that are un-realistic and seemingly impossible for men to live up to. And we hold on to these standards as though these minimum requirements are the gateway for any gentleman to become a part of our lives. As a single woman who is striving… Continue reading Date Night: THE smallest GESTURE…

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Rearview Mirrors don’t Reassure Realities

Rearview Mirrors are distorting.  Really, they are. When you think about what’s happening, you have to eventually come to terms that any and everything you see in your ‘rearview mirror’ has now been distorted by some very important factors: 1) Time has passed.  2) You have changed. 3)That “thing” has changed.  Nothing wrong with reflections.… Continue reading Rearview Mirrors don’t Reassure Realities

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Calling my bluff…

Ruth NEVER waited. This is the only thing that plays in my head when I hear a fellow single Christian woman say she’s wating on her BOAZ.It’s the only thing I’ve been hearing in my head for the last couple days after a co-worker explained to me that all I am “is talk”. When she… Continue reading Calling my bluff…